Through the Stargate
Colonel Jack O’Neill, “It’s time for Plan B.”
Capt. Carter, “We have a Plan B?”
Colonel O’Neill, “No, but it’s time for one.”
Stargate
I love the series Stargate. If you haven’t seen it, there is somehting wrong with you but never fear, there is still time and you can rent all 10 seasons from Netflix.
Anyhow, the premise is this great big ring that dials to other planets and creates a wormhole between them allowing people to just step thru to get to the other planet. The ring has 39 symbols that are dialed to connect and it takes seven symbols. Six are for the location and the seventh is the starting point. (The symbols relate to star charts.) In one episode they found that by dialing an eighth symbol they can add an extra distance to the dialing sort of like dialing an area code. When they dialed the eigth symbol they found a place they had been searching in our galaxy for, the lost city of Atlantis. From that a new adventure was born.
So what does this have to do with me other than I’m a geek? A while back I sent seven letters. Three came back undeliverable and no response on the other four. One of those undeliverable had a another adress but said it had been over a year for the address change so they couldn’t forward it. The funny thing is that when I opened this letter to resend it, the enclosed self address stamped envelope had a batman stamp on it which is pretty funny in itself if you know me personally.
I don’t know why the delay in sending it as I have had it for a while. So maybe the eighth letter is the charm. Maybe it will lead me to that mythical city of Reunion.
On the flip side, little baby RJ is coming soon. April 9th to be exact, barring any unforseen circumstances. I am kind of excited and kind of scared but that’s to be expected. I am taking a month off thanks to my state’s family leave policy. Gotta love that! Work is scrambling to ensure everything is covered even though I told them they could call me, but they want to ensure I don’t get called except in extreme emergencies. Gotta love them for that. Our house is filled with baby clothes and the smell of Dreft. My son says he is getting excited as well. I hope so but I am still a little worried that he will feel neglected in those first few weeks but I guess I will cross that bridge when I come to it.

March 14th, 2007 at 4:05 am
Hi Wraith,
I wonder if sub-consciously you are putting it on hold until your new family is more settled. Congrats on the upcoming addition!
Dan
March 14th, 2007 at 3:51 pm
A very interesting point Dan has mentioned. Much of my searching has stopped and started for the time to feel ‘right’.
When are you expecting the new arrival Wraith??
Very excited for you all. Your son will fell a little disjointed - he’s been the no. 1 person in the house - and now he has to move side-ways. But from reading your blog - I’m sure that he will never feel ‘neglected’ in your home. He has a loving family - it will just be sad for him as babies aren’t much ‘fun’ for little kids - until they can really interact!!!!
It will all be good!!! Keep reassuring him that he’s not being replaced - just that the family is expanding!!! And that there’s enough love to go around.
Hugs, Poss.
March 14th, 2007 at 8:14 pm
Could be Dan, although I think it was more fear of what may happen or not happen as the case may be. Then again, not having to deal with that pain in a time of such joy, hmmmm, maybe you are right after all.
The 9th of April, via cesarian. Yeah he will be pretty stoked when the little one is born. He atually likes to help when he is around newborns.
March 14th, 2007 at 8:30 pm
April 9th.. I’ll be thinking of you all that day :)
I go through a lot of those stops and starts myself. Even the last time I sent off my petitions. I had them all typed and ready to go, but they sat on my desk for a while before I went to get them notarized.
March 20th, 2007 at 9:51 am
Hi Wraith, I’m sorry that you haven’t gotten a more favorable response. I admire you for not letting it cloud the anticipation of RJ’s arrival. Sending good thoughts to you and your whole family. I had a planned section too and I was able to do all the last minute only child stuff with P. I hope that everything goes as well for your wife as it did for me. :) Thinking of you, Rebecca
March 23rd, 2007 at 4:12 am
Wraith,
I think both the upcoming birth and searching are such highly emotional events. What is that old saying? You only get what you can handle?
I never saw Stargate (or even heard of it)until your blog! I guess “something is wrong with me”.
Take care!