Comments on: Some return http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/ Wraith's Wrealm Thu, 04 Dec 2008 04:15:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: adopteesX3.blogspot.com http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-11630 adopteesX3.blogspot.com Sat, 10 Feb 2007 08:34:27 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-11630 Your wife isn't mad - she's just what you need. We adoptees are wierd people and when we find someone who will have us, they have incredible gifts and abilities! My adoption went awful and there was no love or affection or acceptance in my adoptive family. There was only criticism for this "stupid little boy" that doesn't do things the way they should be done, has no common sense and is a "loser". So when I got married, I made sure my wife knows I love her by telling her often. She amazes me when she responds by saying "I'm glad you love me, I don't know what I'd do without you". Love her to death...... Your wife isn’t mad - she’s just what you need. We adoptees are wierd people and when we find someone who will have us, they have incredible gifts and abilities! My adoption went awful and there was no love or affection or acceptance in my adoptive family. There was only criticism for this “stupid little boy” that doesn’t do things the way they should be done, has no common sense and is a “loser”.

So when I got married, I made sure my wife knows I love her by telling her often. She amazes me when she responds by saying “I’m glad you love me, I don’t know what I’d do without you”.

Love her to death……

]]> By: amy http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10879 amy Tue, 06 Feb 2007 15:17:50 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10879 I would most definitely be interested in the second one. If they gave you an address, go for it. I think that one might be it. Like you said that she moved last year. Dan is right as well they only forward the mail for one year. Then it is returned to sender for six months with a new address. Used to be a letter carrier myself for the Postal Service. I would most definitely be interested in the second one. If they gave you an address, go for it. I think that one might be it. Like you said that she moved last year. Dan is right as well they only forward the mail for one year. Then it is returned to sender for six months with a new address. Used to be a letter carrier myself for the Postal Service.

]]> By: poet http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10819 poet Tue, 06 Feb 2007 02:47:40 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10819 checking in, wraith. one of these days the news you are awaiting will come. call it a hunch. i hope it does, and that you are finally fulfilled. meanwhile, what a supportive and understanding wife you have. embrace that. take care, poet. checking in, wraith. one of these days the news you are awaiting will come. call it a hunch. i hope it does, and that you are finally fulfilled. meanwhile, what a supportive and understanding wife you have. embrace that. take care, poet.

]]> By: Wraiths http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10654 Wraiths Mon, 05 Feb 2007 01:53:46 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10654 thanks suzhern, she is. Hi Cynthia, thanks. Hi chez - that can be the best support. Dan - yeah, I sent a SASE and asked that they send it back. Thanks for the info. Last year, the agency mentioned she was moving so maybe this is the right one. thanks suzhern, she is.

Hi Cynthia, thanks.
Hi chez - that can be the best support.

Dan - yeah, I sent a SASE and asked that they send it back. Thanks for the info. Last year, the agency mentioned she was moving so maybe this is the right one.

]]> By: Reunited Dan http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10635 Reunited Dan Mon, 05 Feb 2007 00:38:53 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10635 I checked with a postal friend and the "undeliverable as addressed" means they have a p.o. box instead of regular mail service at the residence. Also, the postal service only forwards mail for a year after a change in address hence the "forward time expired". I am curious if you asked them to respond either way so you could eliminate names. Reunited Dan I checked with a postal friend and the “undeliverable as addressed” means they have a p.o. box instead of regular mail service at the residence. Also, the postal service only forwards mail for a year after a change in address hence the “forward time expired”.

I am curious if you asked them to respond either way so you could eliminate names.

Reunited Dan

]]> By: Chez http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10615 Chez Sun, 04 Feb 2007 21:53:02 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10615 So happy for you that - a) some responses are coming in............. and b) you have a wonderful supporting wife. My husband is just amazing - I would be a greater mess travelling down this road if it weren't for him. He does worry about me greatly though - and wishes ultimately for me to be "happy" (and NOT the "happy adoptee" happy!!!). Mostly he just hangs back - and gets ready to pick up the pieces if it all turns to mush!!!! YAY - for the suppporting spouses. Hugs, C. So happy for you that -
a) some responses are coming in………….
and
b) you have a wonderful supporting wife.
My husband is just amazing - I would be a greater mess travelling down this road if it weren’t for him. He does worry about me greatly though - and wishes ultimately for me to be “happy” (and NOT the “happy adoptee” happy!!!).
Mostly he just hangs back - and gets ready to pick up the pieces if it all turns to mush!!!!
YAY - for the suppporting spouses.
Hugs, C.

]]> By: Cynthia http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10576 Cynthia Sun, 04 Feb 2007 17:47:26 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10576 Hi Dan,I've been checking each day to see if you had heard anything back I am so glad you have a loving,compassionate,considerate wife.Isnt' that what will all wish we could have in our lives-someone who loves us for who we are,is compassionate and someone who is considerate.Not to mention someone who has helped bring joy and love into your heart by the birth of your son and the new baby. My thoughts and prayers are being sent from the East coast to the postal worker to your mailbox with a response from your birthmother!!!! Cynthia Hi Dan,I’ve been checking each day to see if you had heard anything back

I am so glad you have a loving,compassionate,considerate wife.Isnt’ that what will all wish we could have in our lives-someone who loves us for who we are,is compassionate and someone who is considerate.Not to mention someone who has helped bring joy and love into your heart by the birth of your son and the new baby.

My thoughts and prayers are being sent from the East coast to the postal worker to your mailbox with a response from your birthmother!!!!

Cynthia

]]> By: suzherm http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10532 suzherm Sun, 04 Feb 2007 14:42:03 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2007/02/04/some-return/#comment-10532 very interesting how sposes react. mine historically wanted me to stop all that stuff and pay more attention to him. : ( glad your wife is suppportive. she sounds lovely. very interesting how sposes react. mine historically wanted me to stop all that stuff and pay more attention to him. : (
glad your wife is suppportive. she sounds lovely.

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