Comments on: Why? http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/ Wraith's Wrealm Thu, 04 Dec 2008 02:30:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Chez http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-7493 Chez Wed, 24 Jan 2007 06:48:22 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-7493 Just found you through the blogosphere!!! I am also so tired of trying to explain my WHYS. I hope that you get to find those that you are searching for. Luckily here in Australia we can get our info - and go searching on our own. But - we still find brick walls along the way. (I'm currently trying to break-mine down....day by day) Glad to have found another adoptee out here. (in cyber-space) Hope you don't mind if I tag along for the ride!! Hugs, C. Just found you through the blogosphere!!!
I am also so tired of trying to explain my WHYS.
I hope that you get to find those that you are searching for.
Luckily here in Australia we can get our info - and go searching on our own.
But - we still find brick walls along the way. (I’m currently trying to break-mine down….day by day)
Glad to have found another adoptee out here. (in cyber-space)
Hope you don’t mind if I tag along for the ride!!
Hugs,
C.

]]> By: Andie D. http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2972 Andie D. Sat, 30 Dec 2006 23:12:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2972 I never understood an adoptee who claimed to have no interest in their biological family ties. I couldn't ever imagine not wanting to know. I needed to know with every part of my being. Those who are not adopted many times just "can't" get it. Hell, even I can't get it sometimes. Best of luck. I never understood an adoptee who claimed to have no interest in their biological family ties. I couldn’t ever imagine not wanting to know. I needed to know with every part of my being.

Those who are not adopted many times just “can’t” get it. Hell, even I can’t get it sometimes.

Best of luck.

]]> By: poet http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2741 poet Wed, 27 Dec 2006 16:12:48 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2741 at the holidays it can be especially difficult. i feel for you, wraith. i really do. as you continue on your journey to the truth, let it be known that so many are following along with you. i hope it will be all you hoped for in the end. (accept all, EXpect nothing) was a saying that my bio dad, bill said a long time ago. that quote i carry with me in all facets of my life. take care and i hope that the holidays were good to you. enjoy your family, and i hope that your wife isn't having too difficult a pregnancy thus far. take care to all and i hope that 2007 brings you peace and contentment. all the best, poet at the holidays it can be especially difficult. i feel for you, wraith. i really do. as you continue on your journey to the truth, let it be known that so many are following along with you. i hope it will be all you hoped for in the end. (accept all, EXpect nothing) was a saying that my bio dad, bill said a long time ago. that quote i carry with me in all facets of my life. take care and i hope that the holidays were good to you. enjoy your family, and i hope that your wife isn’t having too difficult a pregnancy thus far. take care to all and i hope that 2007 brings you peace and contentment. all the best, poet

]]> By: Mia http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2740 Mia Wed, 27 Dec 2006 15:42:22 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2740 It's a long and complicated journey but a journey worth taking. Just keep on keeping on, one day at a time. The answers will come to you. Your son knows you love him. If he didn't he never would have said what he did. He said it because he knows it's not true and knew it would bug you. ;o) It’s a long and complicated journey but a journey worth taking. Just keep on keeping on, one day at a time. The answers will come to you.

Your son knows you love him. If he didn’t he never would have said what he did. He said it because he knows it’s not true and knew it would bug you. ;o)

]]> By: MOM http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2719 MOM Tue, 26 Dec 2006 16:16:13 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2719 Dear Son, welcome to the wonderful world of Disciplining Your Child!! You've got a smart little kid, and next time you tell him "NO" he may think he can "get away" with not doing as you tell him. Do you remember the fights that Archie and "the boys" used to have??Well, being a male-you will have more disagreements as he gets older;and when you get the new baby.The shocking reality that he would even"think" of saying mean things to you or your wife,is a real surprise!! But, all parents have to endure such things-and still you keep on doing the things that will result into him being a person that you are proud to say-"that's my son"!! As you are to your MOM & DAD. Proverbs 13:24. LOVE,MOM Dear Son, welcome to the wonderful world of Disciplining Your Child!! You’ve got a smart little kid, and next time you tell him “NO” he may think he can “get away” with not doing as you tell him. Do you remember the fights that Archie and “the boys” used to have??Well, being a male-you will have more disagreements as he gets older;and when you get the new baby.The shocking reality that he would even”think” of saying mean things to you or your wife,is a real surprise!! But, all parents have to endure such things-and still you keep on doing the things that will result into him being a person that you are proud to say-”that’s my son”!! As you are to your MOM & DAD. Proverbs 13:24. LOVE,MOM

]]> By: AMY http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2656 AMY Mon, 25 Dec 2006 02:38:02 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2656 Yea amen to all of it. I wonder why people say that kind of insensitive stuff as well. I get so tired of it. What I do with my information is my business. Her right to privacy - Hogwash - what about our right to our identity? What about our right to say "oh I get it now that is where I get that - I always wondered about that" . Yea amen to all of it. I wonder why people say that kind of insensitive stuff as well. I get so tired of it. What I do with my information is my business. Her right to privacy - Hogwash - what about our right to our identity? What about our right to say “oh I get it now that is where I get that - I always wondered about that”
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]]> By: kim.kim http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2655 kim.kim Mon, 25 Dec 2006 01:23:03 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2655 Oh you were angry with yourself. Sorry, I thought you said you got angry with me. I want my cake and eat it too as well. It's hard isn't it? I got some nice things this Christmas. thanks for clarifying. Oh you were angry with yourself. Sorry, I thought you said you got angry with me. I want my cake and eat it too as well. It’s hard isn’t it?

I got some nice things this Christmas.

thanks for clarifying.

]]> By: suz http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2654 suz Sun, 24 Dec 2006 23:32:02 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2654 Wraith - If I can help at all with tracking down your first mom with the name you have, let me know. I assume with your connections you are pretty well versed on the various db and stuff to locate people. But just wanted to offer that I am happy to help. Yeah, kids. My 9 yo melted down a few weeks go and screamed at me "you wont help me, you dont even care about me". That was like a dagger to my heart. As a mother who lost her child to adoption, I am sometimes overly sensitive to what my kids, husband, etc. say in the Mom department. Happy Holidays to you and your family. Wraith - If I can help at all with tracking down your first mom with the name you have, let me know. I assume with your connections you are pretty well versed on the various db and stuff to locate people. But just wanted to offer that I am happy to help.

Yeah, kids. My 9 yo melted down a few weeks go and screamed at me “you wont help me, you dont even care about me”. That was like a dagger to my heart. As a mother who lost her child to adoption, I am sometimes overly sensitive to what my kids, husband, etc. say in the Mom department.

Happy Holidays to you and your family.

]]> By: Wraiths http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2653 Wraiths Sun, 24 Dec 2006 23:12:05 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2653 Angry at myself that my son thinks I hate him. I get that it's not really how he feels but it's that little kid in me. And yeah, I do know how lucky I am to have him, I just want my cake and to eat it too. ;) Merry Christmas to you and yours as well, kim.kim!! Angry at myself that my son thinks I hate him. I get that it’s not really how he feels but it’s that little kid in me.

And yeah, I do know how lucky I am to have him, I just want my cake and to eat it too. ;)

Merry Christmas to you and yours as well, kim.kim!!

]]> By: kim.kim http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2651 kim.kim Sun, 24 Dec 2006 20:17:35 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/12/24/why/#comment-2651 Sorry but why are you angry that your son thought you hate him? And besides that, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas. And while I am being all holier than thou, you do know how incredibly lucky you are to have a son who communicates with you. Go give him a big squishy hug. Now don't hate me for this (only joking) Sorry but why are you angry that your son thought you hate him? And besides that, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas.

And while I am being all holier than thou, you do know how incredibly lucky you are to have a son who communicates with you. Go give him a big squishy hug. Now don’t hate me for this (only joking)

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