Comments on: Adoption is not a bad thing. http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/ Wraith's Wrealm Thu, 04 Dec 2008 03:55:53 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Anonymous http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-15567 Anonymous Wed, 04 Apr 2007 21:28:51 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-15567 yo yo

]]> By: Margie http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1839 Margie Thu, 05 Oct 2006 14:19:46 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1839 Thank you for this, Wraith, so well spoken. Thank you for this, Wraith, so well spoken.

]]> By: Wraiths http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1837 Wraiths Wed, 04 Oct 2006 22:44:40 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1837 Thank you kim.kim Thank you kim.kim

]]> By: kim.kim http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1836 kim.kim Wed, 04 Oct 2006 22:27:11 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1836 Poet, I'd rather hear her version of events, yours sounds a teeny bit too rosy and makes me suspicious that you might have left out a few key details. Great post Wraith. Poet, I’d rather hear her version of events, yours sounds a teeny bit too rosy and makes me suspicious that you might have left out a few key details.

Great post Wraith.

]]> By: Wraiths http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1832 Wraiths Tue, 03 Oct 2006 23:12:19 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1832 Thank you SUZ. Thank you SUZ.

]]> By: suz http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1831 suz Tue, 03 Oct 2006 20:44:02 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1831 okay, so if it was appropriate i would kiss you but since thats not appropriate, I will say BRAVO WRAITH! You rock. Agree with all you have said. okay, so if it was appropriate i would kiss you but since thats not appropriate, I will say BRAVO WRAITH! You rock. Agree with all you have said.

]]> By: Wraiths http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1803 Wraiths Thu, 28 Sep 2006 18:54:55 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1803 Poet - Tell her not to give up though. I have heard many a story about this happening and both sides were sitting there saying, "well when are they going to write and prove they care for me?" I always tell them to send a card on the others birthday or something to keep a gentle foot in the door without pissing anyone off. Mia - I wish you were too. I can't wait to get there!! Poet - Tell her not to give up though. I have heard many a story about this happening and both sides were sitting there saying, “well when are they going to write and prove they care for me?” I always tell them to send a card on the others birthday or something to keep a gentle foot in the door without pissing anyone off.

Mia - I wish you were too. I can’t wait to get there!!

]]> By: Mia http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1800 Mia Thu, 28 Sep 2006 13:03:33 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1800 Oh I so wish I was going to the retreat. I hope it is a healing experience for you. Please write as soon as you get home and tell us everything! I shall live vicariously through you. Oh I so wish I was going to the retreat. I hope it is a healing experience for you. Please write as soon as you get home and tell us everything! I shall live vicariously through you.

]]> By: poet http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1799 poet Thu, 28 Sep 2006 11:34:58 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/09/27/86/#comment-1799 you bring up a valid point. i know of a girl who was forced away from her family to give birth to her baby, and then was forced to sign the baby into adoption. she was to return to the family and act as nothing happened. she did. it was hard. but as time went on she found happiness once more. she has 2 beautiful children,whom she raised into adulthood. a few years back she made a contact with the adopted baby. they sent a few letters back and forth, a picture or two, and then the letters stopped coming. the birth mother has come to accept this as the natural order, she found out that the baby grew into a fine adult. i'm sure it would be nice if the contact could have remained, but for whatever her reasons, the 'child' stopped. the girl i know has also come to terms with all of this, and was happy to have what she learned. and let it go at that. of course, she would like more, but it is not to be....at least for now. i hope you enjoy school. education = knowledge and knowledge=power. take care, wraith. you bring up a valid point. i know of a girl who was forced away from her family to give birth to her baby, and then was forced to sign the baby into adoption. she was to return to the family and act as nothing happened. she did. it was hard. but as time went on she found happiness once more. she has 2 beautiful children,whom she raised into adulthood. a few years back she made a contact with the adopted baby. they sent a few letters back and forth, a picture or two, and then the letters stopped coming. the birth mother has come to accept this as the natural order, she found out that the baby grew into a fine adult. i’m sure it would be nice if the contact could have remained, but for whatever her reasons, the ‘child’ stopped. the girl i know has also come to terms with all of this, and was happy to have what she learned. and let it go at that. of course, she would like more, but it is not to be….at least for now.

i hope you enjoy school. education = knowledge and knowledge=power. take care, wraith.

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