Comments on: Dear Mom http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/ Study of adoption Fri, 30 Dec 2011 04:34:00 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Wraiths http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-327 Wraiths Mon, 05 Jun 2006 04:15:32 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-327 When I meet her, I will ask her. ;) When I meet her, I will ask her. ;)

]]> By: Andie D. http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-326 Andie D. Mon, 05 Jun 2006 04:00:54 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-326 Bugger all. I don't understand how she could deny. Unless she's afraid. Many bmoms, from what I understand, were made to feel guilty. Nope. Still don't get it. I finally met my bmom in person less than 1 month ago. We'd had phone contact for 2 months before that, and I had to pressure her to get her to meet me. Even though she said she was glad to have contact with me, there was still some big time hesitation. So I can imagine that someone who is leary of contact would have even more. Do you have info on your birthdad? Maybe that's the route to go instead. Bugger all.

I don’t understand how she could deny. Unless she’s afraid. Many bmoms, from what I understand, were made to feel guilty. Nope. Still don’t get it.

I finally met my bmom in person less than 1 month ago. We’d had phone contact for 2 months before that, and I had to pressure her to get her to meet me. Even though she said she was glad to have contact with me, there was still some big time hesitation. So I can imagine that someone who is leary of contact would have even more.

Do you have info on your birthdad? Maybe that’s the route to go instead.

]]> By: Wraiths http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-315 Wraiths Sat, 03 Jun 2006 04:04:13 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-315 The agency found her but she has denied contact at this time. Last year they let the name Sharon slip but a PI in Florida told me that they have been known to let names slip that aren't correct. The agency found her but she has denied contact at this time. Last year they let the name Sharon slip but a PI in Florida told me that they have been known to let names slip that aren’t correct.

]]> By: HeatherRainbow http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-314 HeatherRainbow Sat, 03 Jun 2006 03:01:15 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-314 (((Wraith))) So... you found your mom? Or you mean the agency gave you a name, and you think you found her? I hope you get to meet her. I hope she comes around. I know for my experience of Florida... I was told it was illegal for me (as a mom) to search. I hope she signs up for the Florida Registry. I hope that you find each other. (((Wraith)))

So… you found your mom? Or you mean the agency gave you a name, and you think you found her? I hope you get to meet her. I hope she comes around. I know for my experience of Florida… I was told it was illegal for me (as a mom) to search. I hope she signs up for the Florida Registry. I hope that you find each other.

]]> By: kippa herring http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-310 kippa herring Fri, 02 Jun 2006 14:29:34 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-310 I am just so sorry, Wraith. It is something I simply don't understand.. I am just so sorry, Wraith.
It is something I simply don’t understand..

]]> By: Mia http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-308 Mia Fri, 02 Jun 2006 12:32:45 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-308 (((((WRAITH))))))) (((((WRAITH)))))))

]]> By: momseekingpeace http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-306 momseekingpeace Thu, 01 Jun 2006 07:00:50 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-306 I have faith that she will come around, I waited 6 years for my son, I thought he never would. I know that the waiting is so painful. I wish I could help. MSP I have faith that she will come around, I waited 6 years for my son, I thought he never would. I know that the waiting is so painful.
I wish I could help.
MSP

]]> By: AMY http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-305 AMY Wed, 31 May 2006 21:28:07 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-305 I am gonna scream this because its what I feel. GOD IT BETTER HAPPEN SOON. THIS IS DRIVING ME ADOPTAL I am gonna scream this because its what I feel. GOD IT BETTER HAPPEN SOON. THIS IS DRIVING ME ADOPTAL

]]> By: suz http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-304 suz Wed, 31 May 2006 10:31:46 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-304 wish i could say something encouraging. wish i could help. i never understand this. i, as a mom, am waiting for the day that my daughter feels strong enough to meet. right now its email. but should the day come that she wants more - dude, i am SOOOO there. i dont care if I am in my jammies and my slippers but I am gone in my car, wheels spinning and tires screeching to see her less than an hour away! hugs. wish i could say something encouraging. wish i could help. i never understand this. i, as a mom, am waiting for the day that my daughter feels strong enough to meet. right now its email. but should the day come that she wants more – dude, i am SOOOO there. i dont care if I am in my jammies and my slippers but I am gone in my car, wheels spinning and tires screeching to see her less than an hour away!

hugs.

]]> By: Cookie http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-303 Cookie Wed, 31 May 2006 06:55:03 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/05/30/dear-mom/#comment-303 I can answer one of your questions - she thinks of you - I believe that it is virtually impossible for her not to. Remember Farmer Boy? How long it took for him? Maybe it will happen for you too - maybe not - but it still may. Either way, you've done all you could - and you find a way to accept it - at some point - won't be easy - but you gotta do it! Fake names even now? I don't believe that - I think that must be her real name. Cooool photo - where was it taken? Hugs, Cookie I can answer one of your questions – she thinks of you – I believe that it is virtually impossible for her not to. Remember Farmer Boy? How long it took for him? Maybe it will happen for you too – maybe not – but it still may. Either way, you’ve done all you could – and you find a way to accept it – at some point – won’t be easy – but you gotta do it!

Fake names even now? I don’t believe that – I think that must be her real name.

Cooool photo – where was it taken?

Hugs,

Cookie

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