Comments on: Mirror of Erised http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/ Wraith's Wrealm Thu, 04 Dec 2008 04:50:15 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: ursula http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-1368 ursula Wed, 26 Jul 2006 18:45:20 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-1368 I think if you find my entry entitled the delivery in my older archives you might gain some perspective from the "otherside". http://knock-first.diaryland.com/older.html I think it was the first entry... I placed my daughter for adoption when I was 16 and I am 33 now with two girls of my own. I have been told how very much "in the minority" I am that I still write the agency and still send pictures and still hope.... recently I found out her first name as I had been requesting to know since she was born. They finally allowed it. Now I cant bring myself to write anymore. I guess it scared me somehow. I will make myself write next week maybe. I think if you find my entry entitled the delivery in my older archives you might gain some perspective from the “otherside”.

http://knock-first.diaryland.com/older.html

I think it was the first entry…

I placed my daughter for adoption when I was 16 and I am 33 now with two girls of my own. I have been told how very much “in the minority” I am that I still write the agency and still send pictures and still hope…. recently I found out her first name as I had been requesting to know since she was born. They finally allowed it. Now I cant bring myself to write anymore. I guess it scared me somehow. I will make myself write next week maybe.

]]> By: FauxClaud http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-148 FauxClaud Thu, 09 Mar 2006 14:19:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-148 I go with kimKims parallel life...just a glimmer of were i might have been with my son in tow. Thought that might be too painful to see and not have. Umm..I guess I don't need that mirror. I go with kimKims parallel life…just a glimmer of were i might have been with my son in tow.
Thought that might be too painful to see and not have.
Umm..I guess I don’t need that mirror.

]]> By: Cookie http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-147 Cookie Thu, 09 Mar 2006 04:53:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-147 Like Lady though I am most grateful and happy to be in reunion, I still feel the tethers of adoption too. Like Kim, my deepest wish would be: 1) to turn back time and raise my first son; or 2) that he'd love me as much now as his other mom. He loves me I know, but, I wish for more than we will ever have. And we have so much, I want to just be his mom though. Like Lady though I am most grateful and happy to be in reunion, I still feel the tethers of adoption too.

Like Kim, my deepest wish would be: 1) to turn back time and raise my first son; or 2) that he’d love me as much now as his other mom.

He loves me I know, but, I wish for more than we will ever have. And we have so much, I want to just be his mom though.

]]> By: Wraiths http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-146 Wraiths Wed, 08 Mar 2006 14:54:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-146 Those are all good, here's to wishing. Those are all good, here’s to wishing.

]]> By: Mia http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-145 Mia Tue, 07 Mar 2006 19:00:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-145 If I looked into the mirror I would want to see what peace of mind looked like. If I looked into the mirror I would want to see what peace of mind looked like.

]]> By: Lady http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-144 Lady Tue, 07 Mar 2006 18:07:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-144 I would like to see a sign which read, "FREED", across my brow. Same thing for my son. While I am happy to be in a good reunion, I don't feel freed from the tethers of adoption. Lady I would like to see a sign which read, “FREED”, across my brow. Same thing for my son.

While I am happy to be in a good reunion, I don’t feel freed from the tethers of adoption.

Lady

]]> By: Kippa Herring http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-143 Kippa Herring Tue, 07 Mar 2006 16:46:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-143 I'm too greedy. I'd like to see the same as you. And so much more. I’m too greedy.
I’d like to see the same as you. And so much more.

]]> By: kim.kim http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-142 kim.kim Tue, 07 Mar 2006 11:20:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/03/06/mirror-of-erised/#comment-142 The harry potter mirror? I would see my child holding my hand going to her ballet class. I see myself packing her lunch and brushing her hair for school. I see her colouring in on a chair in the corner while I am rehearsing songs. I see the parallel life that I never lived. The harry potter mirror? I would see my child holding my hand going to her ballet class. I see myself packing her lunch and brushing her hair for school. I see her colouring in on a chair in the corner while I am rehearsing songs. I see the parallel life that I never lived.

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