Comments on: A day in the life….continued http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/ Study of adoption Fri, 30 Dec 2011 04:34:00 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Mia http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-111 Mia Thu, 16 Feb 2006 13:08:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-111 Great job writing that letter Wraith! It's so difficult writing a letter that will somehow convey everything you need to say with the hope they will read it and have a change of heart. Or at the very least in some small way know you. It's in Gods hands now so keep the faith! Ya' done good. Mia Great job writing that letter Wraith! It’s so difficult writing a letter that will somehow convey everything you need to say with the hope they will read it and have a change of heart. Or at the very least in some small way know you.
It’s in Gods hands now so keep the faith! Ya’ done good.
Mia

]]> By: petunia http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-110 petunia Wed, 15 Feb 2006 18:52:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-110 I am eagerly watching your story. I can just imagine what she is feeling. She probably doesn't want to have to think about the past...she has made it this far with trying not to feel much about it. Who knows, it may be a big secret. It's great she will accept a letter. If you let her know why you want to meet with her or write then she won't be scared? (is that the word?), intimidated?, shamed? Maybe she worries about what you think of her..... I'm just glad she'll take a letter from you.... I'm watching your blog and praying for the whole thing to go great! I am eagerly watching your story. I can just imagine what she is feeling. She probably doesn’t want to have to think about the past…she has made it this far with trying not to feel much about it. Who knows, it may be a big secret. It’s great she will accept a letter. If you let her know why you want to meet with her or write then she won’t be scared? (is that the word?), intimidated?, shamed? Maybe she worries about what you think of her…..
I’m just glad she’ll take a letter from you….
I’m watching your blog and praying for the whole thing to go great!

]]> By: Kippa Herring http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-109 Kippa Herring Wed, 15 Feb 2006 13:54:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-109 I can say 'ouch!". I'm pissed too, on your behalf. It's the burning injustice of it. And that people should be able to make a cushy business out of something that should be everyone's God-given right is just more salt in the wound. Hoping aginst hope for you, and keeping you in my thoughts . . . I can say ‘ouch!”.
I’m pissed too, on your behalf.
It’s the burning injustice of it.
And that people should be able to make a cushy business out of something that should be everyone’s God-given right is just more salt in the wound.

Hoping aginst hope for you, and keeping you in my thoughts . . .

]]> By: Wraiths http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-108 Wraiths Wed, 15 Feb 2006 05:38:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-108 The letter is written and my wife is going to mail it for me in the morning. I feel so drained. thank you all for your kindness and support. The letter is written and my wife is going to mail it for me in the morning. I feel so drained.

thank you all for your kindness and support.

]]> By: HeatherRainbow http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-107 HeatherRainbow Tue, 14 Feb 2006 19:11:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-107 Just to put it out there.... I don't know your particular case, but I have heard that Adoption Agencies do sometimes lie. If they always had to keep up with every person they assisted in the adoption triad, then they wouldn't be able to take new cases. Maybe your mom didn't feel comfortable going through the agency? I wish I could reach out to all moms and adoptees and mend all their wounds. Including my own. Just to put it out there…. I don’t know your particular case, but I have heard that Adoption Agencies do sometimes lie. If they always had to keep up with every person they assisted in the adoption triad, then they wouldn’t be able to take new cases. Maybe your mom didn’t feel comfortable going through the agency?

I wish I could reach out to all moms and adoptees and mend all their wounds. Including my own.

]]> By: Carrie Craft http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-106 Carrie Craft Tue, 14 Feb 2006 17:49:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-106 Wraith, I am sending you all the luck in the world right now. Also, wondering if you have considered using volunteers? I know of several who have been very successful in searches. Let me know if there is any way I can help you in your search efforts. Carrie Wraith,

I am sending you all the luck in the world right now.

Also, wondering if you have considered using volunteers? I know of several who have been very successful in searches.

Let me know if there is any way I can help you in your search efforts.

Carrie

]]> By: kim.kim http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-105 kim.kim Tue, 14 Feb 2006 17:27:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-105 Argh. Argh.

]]> By: Wraiths http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-104 Wraiths Tue, 14 Feb 2006 04:06:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-104 me too, thank you. me too, thank you.

]]> By: Trista http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-103 Trista Tue, 14 Feb 2006 02:23:00 +0000 http://wraithswrealm.com/blog/2006/02/13/a-day-in-the-lifecontinued/#comment-103 I've been thinking about you since you shared your news. Wishing you good things, hoping you can make a connection (however weak it may be). I’ve been thinking about you since you shared your news. Wishing you good things, hoping you can make a connection (however weak it may be).

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