So, I got a call Thursday. The adoption agency is going to give me one more hour of search time and the new searcher was calling to make sure I had a support system, just in case my birthmom doesn’t want contact, or they are unable to find her.
I tried to assure her that I had several support groups, both online and local, as well as family and friends. but she wasn’t convinced. It’s funny how worried they seem to be for me, when the best thing they could really do is give me the my info.
I don’t have a lot of faith that they will be able to do anything for me. They just don’t seem to really want to try. Maybe I’m not giving them enough credit, but after my last sttempt with them I don’t really. I mean, after a year of waiting they tell me they found an uncle, but not my birthmom. Since they don’t have my birthmom’s permission I’m not allowed to contact, nor even know who my uncle is, nor is he allowed to know anything about me.
One funny part, the searcher asked me what I would do if they couldn’t find my birthmom. My reply was that I would find another route. That threw her.

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